We are often unsure, confused, or helpless when it comes to knowing someone with a serious illness. What do we say and how can we offer support? Here are a few tips that can help you share meaningful moments with family or friends.
Don’t avoid seeing, speaking, or comforting the patient. Be the friend or loved one you have always been.
Always call before you visit, but never be afraid to visit. They could be lonely. See if they may need anything and when is the best time for company.
A simple squeeze of their hand can tell them you still care.
Bring a positive attitude and a smile; it’s contagious.
Cook their favorite meal. Bring in disposable containers so they won’t worry about returns or cleaning dishes.
Weep with the patient when they weep. Laugh when they laugh. Don’t be afraid to share these emotions.
Sometimes saying nothing at all and just sitting silently together can be a comfort to others.
Offer to take care of the patient’s children. They may need time to be alone with their loved one. The children may also need a short break.
Take the patient out for a pleasure trip but know their limitations.
Ask the patient if they need transportation to an appointment or a local store.
Celebrate holidays by asking if you can decorate the patient’s room or home.
Give the patient’s family a chance to have a break by offering to come stay with the patient or invite them out.
Ask if you can pray together.
Simply sending a card that says, “I care.”
Water the plants.
Offer to help with light housekeeping.
Ask if the patient wants to talk about their illness. Ask, “Do you feel like talking about it?”
You can never go wrong by just physically, mentally, and emotionally being there for that family member or special friend. A small gesture can go a long way with someone who may be fighting a daily battle.
Beloved if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 1 John 4:11
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